She baffled me and a lot of other women too.. It was the contrast of never having an orgasm and yet 'enjoying' the sex that threw me off...
Anyhow, some ladies were curious about whether there had been any progress with that. So I decided to email Sam for an update. Here's what she had to say:
I'm glad she mentions Fahmida, because it seems that her story has hit a nerve with many, many people.
Here's what my female interviewees had to say about oral sex:
Ayesha, Female, 28
Again a personal choice. I myself have gone down on my partners because in that moment I wanted to. Again, it is very hard to theorize sex and try to work within laws.
Layla, Female, 19
I love getting it, but not too fond of giving it. Its def one of the best ways to please your partner, and also a selfless one. Its dam tiring sometimes, and well I don’t feel like there is anything wrong with it.
Ambreen, Female, 28
uhh... i like receiving it .. im not a big fan of giving it ..... i think it takes too long... my jaw hurts....
Mariam, Female, 26
Sumeira, Female, 25
Zobia, Female, 22
Oral sex is good and fun. More than men, women often require it to reach an orgasm. Its unfortunate though that many males in our community think its wrong to go down on a girl and are completely fine with the idea of their ‘girls’ going down on them.
Saira, Female, 22
Rabia Female, 23
Farah, Female, 29
Sam, Female, 28
Maliha, Female, 21
Mahreen, Female, 26
Love it. But if you’re a guy and you expect it, be prepared to spend some time down there yourself.
(Hah. Very well said.)
Zulaikha, Female, 34
Oral sex rocks. It is natural and intimate and a loving gesture.
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