Wednesday, November 20, 2013

We BEAR our BREASTS



I so often hear comments on my topless boobful drawings from brown guys.... things like,

"Her breasts don't look accurate because brown women's breasts are never that perky"

"Brown women never have nipples like that"

or I've even once heard

"Brown women never have nice breasts"

I mean WHAT. THE. FUCK. Breasts come in all kinds, regardless of geographical fucking location.

I don't ever hear judgements on how brown penises are worse than other international penises. Why do some men have to be such assholes? Because they were fucking raised to be. Misogyny is part of the package that comes with our colourful culture. The problem is, we refuse to acknowledge it and change. Its not always men either. Some of the worst misogynists I have come across are other Pakistani women... who have told me how women should sit, how they should behave... and where their place in the world is. They have told me what I can and cannot wear, obviously I have disregarded it all (for those who aren't regular readers, I assure you I am a woman myself (happily married) and not just trying to get boob pics for stroke material).

Now I ask you Pakistani women, and other women and men who wish to assist me in my goals of increased equality in Pakistan to support me in my upcoming art project. I know, its a stretch....I don't know how many will want to participate...and I don't blame you, we live in a culture of fear. Especially as women, we barely have the freedom to walk down the street by ourselves in a country like ours, let alone show ownership over our own body parts. If you feel you cannot participate, at least support by sharing the FUCK out of it, all over your social media.

I will let the pictures speak for themselves (please click to enlarge and read text) :












1) No faces at all. I don't want you identified.

2) Remember to include a sentence or two about discrimination you have faced.

3) SHARE on your social media

4) All participants must be 18 years of age or older

5) Submissions from trans women are welcome!

6) send all emails to nicemangosDOTblogATgmailDOTcom  

7) Do not worry about your anonymity, I have never in the history of my blog compromised anyones identity... please take a look around to see what kinds of things people have shared with me. I will put pics up in a random order after I have received a fair amount.

8) the above are just samples - made from googled images.


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yes there might be pervs excited by the idea of this. But i refuse to live in fear of sex hungry pervs desperate to catch a glimpse of bare skin.

obviously there will be some people pissed off by the very idea. How boring would it be if there weren't?

Now lets get some diverse breasts out there ladies!

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UPDATE: some awesome submissions have started coming in. I am truly truly grateful for you participation. Lets pick up the pace ladies, this is going to be infuckingcredible.... and I cannot do it without you. 

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SECOND UPDATE: You can view the launched project here!!






25 comments:

  1. Men who like women like breasts of all shapes and sizes. With the few partners I've had in my life, by the time we got naked, not one of them ever complained that my breasts were too brown and/or too floppy. And every time we had sex, they seemed to enjoy them to the fullest.

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  2. Okayy dear anonymous.... are you saying that I'm lying when I say men complain about these things? Oh and they complain about vaginas too.... why do you think they have products like vaginal bleach and 'revirginizing' cream? why do push up bras exist? why are porn stars large breasted?

    Not sure what point you are making, I am glad you havent had the experience of a man complaining to your face... i don't think most women have....when people are getting laid they tend not to say shit about each others insecurities... since it would, um... i don't know... get in the way of the getting laid bit. And I also like to cling to the hope that a lot of men out there are not assholes...but that doesnt change the fact that a lot of them are. Again, not sure what point you are making..... and not sure you're a woman at all... because really... why would a woman say this... Anyhooo... thanks for your comment. Cheers.

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  3. Eiynah ,
    You are absolute correct. the discrimination on their body parts is always here. i had a cousin which i think is pretty among all but she refused by many "rishtewale" due to she had less weight breast . i think the future upcoming child can complain it but why his/her hone wala daddy is complaining ?
    Hats off to ur work ! if i would breast i would have participated in your campaign . but i am sharing it along social media !

    MR.RF

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  4. A really meaningful project I must say. I'm still double-minded as to whether I should take part in this but I still think it's a great idea. Please do post all the pictures/artwork on this blog as well :)

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    1. Thank you so much, I really appreciate words of encouragement. ITs going to be a hard project to get off the ground.... but I can only count on people like you to participate. If you truly think it is meaningful.... please do not be double minded. The only incentive I can provide you is that you will probably be making history if you do decide to participate. It will be completely anonymous... and I will post pics in a random order... it will make a difference and send a clear message. Please do rethink your hesitation. I can happily say that some submissions have started trickling in. Much love and strength - E

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    2. i emailed you :)

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    3. Thank you !! and thanks to all the lovely ladies who have participated so far. This is gonna be awesome xx

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  5. dude you seem a little too desperate to have a desi boob pictures folder in your computer but to begin with WWHERE THE FUCK ARE YOUR OWN MANGOES?

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    1. FIrstly, I am not a dude. And secondly, I have not put up anyones mangos yet. Thirdly, don't think you have the right to ask me jack... so fuck off :)

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    2. ok one last question: did you ask your mommy, bhabhi etc to bare their breast and send you a photo?No?

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  6. No reply for me ? :(

    Mr. RF

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  7. holy crap, yeah, i was talking to my wife last spring about this very subject. i also commented on another blog about it too. where i live, here in the US, the land of the "FREE" the female breast has been deemed indecent, obscene, and even ILLEGAL to look at, especially if you are a minor. that means everybody is a newborn criminal, as soon as you open your eyes and imprint and bond with your mother. luckily i am not, i was bred, born and raised a Catholic and nursing your young is icky, gross and quite possibly a mortal sin. why is the very first place we are supposed to take our first drink, all mammals instinctively seek our first nourishment, been deemed indecent, obscene and ILLEGAL? who's bright idea was this? believe it or not there is an upside to this, especially for you. i was watching Dr Oz a while back and he said that obese men's belly fat produces estrogen throwing them into a type of female puberty and they actually do grow female breast tissue. that means the mayor of Toronto"s man-boobs are at least as indecent, obscene and ILLEGAL as any woman's bosom anywhere. should he bare them where i live, i will perform a citizen"s arrest and throw that fat ass in jail! my wife is shy not repressed, i have talked to her about letting me post some pics on my, now dead, blog.had her on the fence a couple times, any advice or words of encouragement, she knows i feel exactly the same as you about this social injustice, for lack of a better term.

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  8. Wow....I'll see some desi boobs :D

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    1. yes, yes u will :) u can choose to be pervy about it... or u can choose to appreciate this project for its socio-political aspects. Either way, you and I are both on the same side here. Excited about the art project :)

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  9. Well, the truth is, I appreciate those of us living proudly in a natural life style.
    However, when the one breast looks like ( < ) and the other looks like ( > ) or even ( _ ).figuratively, it can cause alot of insecurity and even inhibit someone's love life to a large degree. The cause from this might be that men go and went the bigger or pointy breasts, with a good bra I have a might figure but as soon as I loose it I think I change into a chalta phirta cartoon.
    Love your work Though!

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    1. Dear Anon, most of us are our own harshest critics. Through this project i hope to showcase a variety of breasts and show that there is no 'perfect' ... breasts come in all shapes, sizes and colours... we are often insecure about things that others may not even notice. Thanks for the kind words about my work! xxx

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  10. The truth we guyz always forget .. "I don't ever hear judgements on how brown penises are worse than other international penises."

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  11. a fantastic project! shared it on our tumblr. best of luck!

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    1. Thanks a lot for sharing! Any help spreading the word is appreciated :)

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  12. Mailed you!

    Mr.RF

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  13. Where to mail you?

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    1. nicemangosDOTblogATgmailDOTcom :)

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  14. hello, i came across your blogs (nice mangos and we bear our breasts) a few days ago and i had to use a proxy to access it because the pakistani government is too scared to let people check your blog out in peace. anyway, thank you for doing what you are doing. as a pakistani teenager, i've always been very insecure about my breasts as one breast is significantly larger than the other so it looks a bit odd but after going through all of these posts, i've decided to just accept them as they are a part of who i am. thank you!

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    1. you have made my day! These are the reasons I blog <3 So happy that my work could have helped in any small way. If you ever want to participate in the project, please dont hesitate to send me a pic via the email address listed above.

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