Wednesday, January 9, 2013
He likes his ladies 'older', but that could mean trouble.
I recently got an email from a reader in quite the predicament. I thought it would be best if he heard more opinions, especially from other men… perhaps guys who have been in similar situations.
I am 22 years old, i live in pakistan.I found about sex when i was 9/10 years old. I always enjoyed watching porn. I made out with many girls but didnt do anything else. My sex life started when i was in college 18 years old. I had been in many relationships with girls in college.Enjoyed good simple sex and foreplay. But when i got in university i encountered my first relationship with an aged women (married). It was new for me but unlike in previous cases i would have to seduce the female for sex i was being seduced by the women. Anyways when i had sex with her it was the best i had ever had. She had total control over me and knew how to handle me, give me pleasure and satisfy her self too. It was just perfect no awkward situations unlike those that would occur with my prior girlfriends many times. After this experience aged women body figure, breast and every other feature took over me. My interest in young women started to die. After my relationship with the first one ended (her husband came back from Dubai). I went after other aged women not any girls anymore (Im talking about from 26-35 years old women,who had kids or were atleast into 2nd year of marriage). After being in relationship with many other aged women, till just a couple months ago i found out because of me one of the women got in trouble, something bad happened (Not going to tell all that happened) but because of what happened i'm not going to being a relationship with a aged women again just for my lust. And its really hard to find an unmarried/divorced women. Mostly the ones you find are married and have children.
the problem is that after that i have tried to be in relationship with few girls after that but i havent been able to enjoy sex anymore. I have lost interest in them. I have tried but i dont even try anymore. I have even hired aged prostitutes couple of times (Facepalm ). How am i suppose to get over this ? what can i do to enjoy sex more with a young partner ? I have to get over this or i will end up ... errr.
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We all know that sexuality is generally a risky business in Pakistan, and can sometimes land you in grave danger (when done outside of wedlock), so not only is it unethical to be boinking someone else's partner but it can get you fuckin' killed too! So be careful Yasir.
I do realize it's hard to come across single 'older' women in Pakistan - and that's because they want to fucking marry all the women off as soon as they reach puberty! Its not worth the risk, and you really don't want to ruin anyone else's life…. If you're engaging in sexual acts with a sex worker - remember to always use condoms.
Also, sometimes an experienced/confident partner isn't necessarily an older one. Perhaps you'll meet someone you want to grow with.
But I'm curious to hear what other Pakistani gentlemen have to say about this.. and if they've ever felt something similar.
(ps. I think older women would prefer the term 'mature women' or something...as opposed to 'aged women' also, umm since when did 26-35 yr olds become 'older women' i suppose to a 22 yr old maybe, but even then i can't imagine there being too much of a difference)
Till next time, folks.